D'LADY FORECAST~
To the degree we're not living our dreams,
our comfort zone
has more control of us than we have over ourselves.
A few things must be said about how women perceive sexual
harassment.
Not all women perceive all of the same behaviors as sexual
harassment.
This had been proved by the survey that I had been
conducted.
This survey had been done through online.
The respondents which were among my friends had been helped
me a lot.
In this survey, they only need to answer the question
that had been created by myself.
Through this way, I realized that this is one of
the most effective
ways to conduct a survey.
Because you can save your time, your respondent time,
money
to print out the forms, respondents feel more comfortable,
easy to collect data
and analyze data.
The survey conducted revealed that;
The survey show that most of women surveyed saw
sexual assault or sexual proposition as sexual harassment.
There is no right or wrong answer for this survey.
All the answer given is sexual harassment.
But, this shows that all people have a different series
of
comfort zones that they draw around themselves.
Normally, in our interactions
we allow people
to get closer and have more personal interactions
only as we
feel more comfortable with them.
In a casual conversation with a stranger
we
are likely to share little personal information,
allow no touching, and keep a
fair amount
of space between ourselves and the stranger.
As we feel more
comfortable with a person and
get to know them better, we are likely to
allow
them to stand closer to us,
perhaps put a hand on our shoulder and
even joke or
tease us.
It is only our dearest friends or family members
that are given
permission to enter the closest circle of intimacy.
Each of us has different comfort
zones.
We each select who will enter our comfort zone and for what
purpose.
Problems can arise when we think that
because we have
included someone in our comfort zone,
they have an obligation to include us in
theirs.
For example, a close male friend might tell a female,
“You
look so sweet in that skirt”,
and she might feel complimented.
She has allowed
him inside of her comfort zone
by giving him permission to comment on her
physical appearance.
However, another male may make a similar comment
and same
girl may put it outside the comfort zone and be offended.
#thank you again to all participants of this survey >.<