~COMFORT ZONE~

D'LADY FORECAST~

To the degree we're not living our dreams, 

our comfort zone 

has more control of us than we have over ourselves.

A few things must be said about how women perceive sexual harassment.

Not all women perceive all of the same behaviors as sexual harassment.

This had been proved by the survey that I had been conducted.

This survey had been done through online.

The respondents which were among my friends had been helped me a lot.

In this survey, they only need to answer the question 

from the form in the GOOGLE DOC.

that had been created by myself.

Through this way, I realized that this is one of 

the most effective ways to conduct a survey.

Because you can save your time, your respondent time, 

money to print out the forms, respondents feel more comfortable, 

easy to collect data and analyze data.

The survey conducted revealed that;

The survey show that most of women surveyed saw
sexual assault or sexual proposition as sexual harassment.
There is no right or wrong answer for this survey.

All the answer given is sexual harassment.
But, this shows that all people have a different series 

of comfort zones that they draw around themselves. 

Normally, in our interactions we allow people 

to get closer and have more personal interactions 

only as we feel more comfortable with them. 

In a casual conversation with a stranger 

we are likely to share little personal information, 

allow no touching, and keep a fair amount 

of space between ourselves and the stranger. 

As we feel more comfortable with a person and 

get to know them better, we are likely to 

allow them to stand closer to us, 

perhaps put a hand on our shoulder and 

even joke or tease us. 

It is only our dearest friends or family members 

that are given permission to enter the closest circle of intimacy.

Each of us has different comfort zones.

We each select who will enter our comfort zone and for what purpose.

Problems can arise when we think that 

because we have included someone in our comfort zone, 

they have an obligation to include us in theirs.

For example, a close male friend might tell a female, 

“You look so sweet in that skirt”, 

and she might feel complimented. 

She has allowed him inside of her comfort zone 

by giving him permission to comment on her physical appearance. 

However, another male may make a similar comment

and same girl may put it outside the comfort zone and be offended.

#thank you again to all participants of this survey >.<